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Schedule Whiplash: How to Stabilize Your Energy When Life Goes from Structured to Summer Chaos

summer energy series May 21, 2025
Midlife woman navigating schedule changes from school year to summer, feeling overwhelmed and low energy due to routine disruption.

Schedule Whiplash: The Summer Transition No One Talks About (But We’re All Living Through)

Let me guess: your calendar right now looks like a Choose-Your-Own Chaos novel. One minute you're knee-deep in end-of-school-year mayhem (field day shirts, final projects, deadlines galore), and the next you're supposed to be coasting into "summer mode" like it’s some magical reset. Except your brain? Still trying to finish May. Your body? Already bracing for the crash.

Sound familiar? Welcome to Schedule Whiplash.

This weird in-between season is more than just a logistical headache; it's a full-blown energetic identity crisis. And if you don’t catch it early, it can send you straight into burnout territory before summer even gets rolling.

So let’s slow things down, name what’s happening, and give you 3 micro-shifts to help stabilize your energy before it all unravels.


What Is Schedule Whiplash?

You know that jarring feeling you get when a car stops suddenly and your body gets flung forward? That, but emotionally. Schedule Whiplash is what happens when you go from a somewhat structured routine (school drop-offs, work blocks, dinner, repeat) to the undefined messiness of summer without any real transition.

Here’s why it hits so hard:

  • You’re shifting from predictable rhythms to overlapping chaos.

  • Your nervous system hasn’t caught up to the new season.

  • You’re trying to finish one chapter while another one is already underway.

This is classic yellow zone territory in the Energy Zone system. You’re functioning, but edgy. Foggy. Reactionary. Your body feels "off," and your brain is running every open tab at once.

Left unchecked, That yellow zone slides straight into Red.


Why Even Good Transitions Can Be Exhausting

Here’s the deal: even if you like summer, transitions require energy.

Your nervous system doesn’t care if the change is exciting or not, it just registers the instability. The disruption. The gray zone between what was and what’s coming next.

And in that zone, you’re more likely to:

  • Forget what day it is

  • Snap at small things

  • Overcommit, underperform, and crash

That’s why this isn’t the time to overhaul your life. It’s the time to stabilize. To anchor. To ease in.


3 Micro-Habit Shifts to Stabilize Your Energy

Here are three ways to smooth the transition and stay in the yellow (without tipping into red):

1. Anchor One Part of Your Day

Pick one time block (morning, afternoon, or evening) and give it a consistent activity.

  • A walk around the block

  • A quiet cup of coffee outside

  • 15 minutes of movement or journaling

This gives your brain and body something to rely on. A rhythm amidst the chaos. An "I do this every day no matter what" moment.

2. The Daily Top 3 Rule

Each day, ask: What are the three things that actually matter today? Then let the rest go.

  • No guilt. No overthinking. Just clarity.

This helps reduce mental clutter and energy leaks from decision fatigue.

3. Build in Buffer Time

Transitions take time, even between small tasks. Add 10-15 minutes between major activities:

  • School drop-off to work Zoom call

  • Errands to dinner prep

Use that time to breathe, stretch, or simply pause. That’s not wasted time. That’s nervous system regulation in action.


Your Summer Energy Check-In

Close your eyes. Picture the version of summer you actually want:

  • Floating in the pool without thinking about your inbox

  • A nap that isn’t ruined by guilt

  • Laughing with your family without feeling drained

You deserve that version. But it won’t happen by default. You have to name your yellow lights before you hit red.

So this week, just notice:

  • Where is your energy leaking?

  • What’s making you feel off?

  • What part of your day needs an anchor?

This isn’t about perfection. It’s about awareness.


Want a Personalized Map of Your Energy Zones?

Good news: I’m creating a free tool for email list subscribers only—a Personalized Energy Zone Builder that will help you map out exactly where your energy goes, when you function best, and how to work with your body instead of against it.

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TL;DR (Because Your Brain's Full)

  • Schedule Whiplash is the emotional hangover of shifting from structured to summer mode.

  • It triggers yellow zone energy: foggy, edgy, overextended.

  • Micro-habits help you stabilize: anchor your day, focus on your Top 3, and add buffer time.

  • Start noticing your energy before trying to fix everything.

  • Join the waitlist for your Personalized Energy Zone Builder—totally free, just for my email list crew.

🔥 Because summer doesn’t have to fry your soul. Let’s make it fuel you instead.